In NLP we are taught to model those that we want to replicate. I used to be incredibly shy, so I modeled the behaviour and personality of Dawn French, as I perceived her to be. She is a confident, funny lady who you could never imagine being shy or fearful. It didn’t take long for my shyness to disappear from public view and I knew I had cracked it when I did a one hour talk to 350 people and smashed it!
Copy the behaviour of successful people. Watch, listen and read. Take note of your mentors posts, watch how they interact with their friends. Then put it into place and be amazed at how it will change your business and your life.
The one proviso is to be yourself. Let your personality shine through. You want to attract people who will like your energy and who will enjoy interacting with you.
… Positive Mentoring by Jan …